Walaikumusalam

Mere personal experience mai kabhi apni wife se koi larai jaghra ya kuch aisa nahi magr ird gird logon mai jo observe kiya hai ush binah par Rai doona

Husband/Wife ka kabhi jaghra hoo nahi sakta agar un dono ke rihste mai dosre logon ki mudakhlat nah hoo..kiyon ke humhare culture mai jab larki ki shadi ho jatii hai tu woh relationship ko nibhana janti hai..95% husband/wife ke jaghre ke wajohat larke ki mother ush ki sisters ya larke ke rishte daar hotee hain...yahan husband ka role buhat important hai ushe rishton mai balance rakhna ana chayee..baki agar husband wife mai jo halke pulkhee nook jhoonk hoti hai woj waqti hoti ushe ko unlimited mohabat kehte hain..Allah jab rista jorta hai tu ush rishte mai bepanah mohabt bhi daal deta hai aur ush mohabat par dono rishta jetee hain..mai nahi samjhta ke ish rihste mai dil mai koi baat rakh ke achi life guzari jaa sakti..agar dono mai se kisi ke dil mai koi baat hoo tu woo dono ke behaviuor se zahir hojati hai aur phir galat fahmi door karli jatti hai..baki 5% se 10% bigree maa baap ki auladeein hoti hain jin larkiyon ko un ke maa baap ne shee dene hoti hai un ka rishta chalee na chale unheein koi farak nahi parta..90% humhare culture mai Larkiyon ke achi tarbiyat ke wajah se agar husband mai koi kami peshe ho ya ush ki mother/sisters larye jagre karwaein bhi tu humahre culture mai female compromise karke ya phir chezon ko khobsurti se sanbhal ke apni life ache se jeteein hain..mere khyal mai dunya ka haseen aur best rihsta husband/wife hi kaa hai jish mai mohabat Allah ka inaam hai.Ish rihste mai life ko lamha lamha enjoy karke jena ka jo maza hai woh kisi rihte mai..agr ap ko apne life mai real best friend chaye tu woh bhi sirf or sirf husnand/wife hi hosakye hai..shukriya