Assalaam-O-alaikum
Aaj kal humaray maashray main jo faza qayim hay, yaani jis tarah kay columns hum akhbaar main paRhtay hain, jis tarah kay morning shows main sawaal hotay hain, jiss tarah ki shaayeri hum paRhtay hain, jiss tarah kay afsaanay hum paRhtay hain, jiss tarah ki films hum dekhtai hain, jiss tarah ki guftagoo humaray dost hum say kartay hain....... hum kahin na kahin SACHII MOHABBAT ko ruswa kar rahay hotay hain....!!
Hum aur humara maashra MOHABBAT ki jo manzar kashii kar raha hay woh mujhay zaati tour per bohat takleef daita hay.... hum apnay maashray main jiss mohabbat ka propeganda kar rahay hain woh Mohabbat nahin hay balkay 'khudh-gharzi' aur apni 'hawas' aur 'jinsi khuwahishaat' ki takmeel ka aik sabab hay.... aur isi waja say humaray maashray main bohat see beemariyon nay janam lia hay jo kisi deemak ki tarah humaray culture ko humari soch ko, humari saqaafat ko aur humari religios values ko andar hi andar khoukla kartii jaa rahii hay...!
MOHABBAT ko samajhna koi itna mushkil nahin kay iss per nisaab likhay jaayain, mohabbat ka taqaaza REHMAT hay, agar aap kay dil main REHAM hay tou aap ka dil mohabbat say sar-shaar hay....!!
Aik martaba Nabi-e-Karim SAW Shaba-e-Karam kay saath tashreef farma thay kay Hazrat Hassan RZ jo kay choutii umar kay thay wahan say guzray aap nay foran unhain bulaaya aur unn ka 'bosa' lia.... wahan aik badoo sardar jo kay jang-jo sjhaksiyat ka maalik tha wahan baitha tha, uss nay kaha kay meray itnay baitay hain magar main nay aaj tak kisi ko bosa nahin dia, aur Nabi ho kar aisa kar rahay hain... Aap SAW nay farmaya kay jiss kay dil main ALLAH nay REHMAT nahin rakhii main uss ka kia kar sakta hoon!!
Aksar aap nay dekha hay kay hum kehtay hain kay Mohabbat kartay nahin ho jaati hay, kisi ko pehli nazar dekha aur uss kay ishq main griftaar hogaya.... yeh kaun sii mohabbat hay jo shakal ko dekha aur hum girftaar hotay chalay gayay... ASAL mohabbat insaan kay Kirdaar, uss kay ki guftaar, uss kay ikhlaaq say hotii hay..... Mohabbat karnay kay shak-o-surat ka hona zaroori nahi.... aisay log aksar apni mohabbat ko haasil kar kay apni hawas bhuja kar apnay say dour kar daitay hain..... Nabi-e-Karim SAW ki zaat-e-mubaraka ho, Humaray kitnay Azeem-us-shaan Sahab-e-Karam hain, kitnay jangi supashalaar hain, hum nay unn ko daikha nahin magar humara dil unn ki mohabbat main giraftaar hay kiyonki unn kay kirdaar, unn ka ikhlaaq aur unn kay kaarnamay humain unn say mohabbat karnay per majboor kar daitay hain.... More you know about someone personality more you get in LOVE with them.....!!
Islaam kay ibtidayii dinoo main Sahaba-e-Karam aur Taba-Tabiyeen Seerat-un-Nabi SAW apnay bachoon ko paRhaatay thay taakay jitna woh AAP SAW kay baaray main jaanain utna hi unn ki mohabbat main griftaar hoon.
ISLAM mohabbat say nahin roukta, humain fitrii tour per koi acha lag sakta hay, magar aap khudh hi iss ka andaaza lagayain kay aik haseen tareen laRkii hay aur aap ko pehli nazar main dekhtay hii aap ka dil uss per raaghib hogaya, magar agar woh bad-ikhlaaq hay, aur bad-zabaan tou aap main say kitnay ussay apnaanay ki koshish karain gain.
Humain MOHABBAT kay sahii ma'anay samajhnay ki zaroorat hay... ALLAH SWT Shohar aur biwi kay darmiyan mohabbat paida farma hi daita hay, aap khudh sochay kay aik laRkii jo apnay shohar ki adatoon say waqif nahin hoti aur uss ka khandaan alag, shehar alag, qabeela alag, magar srif chand dinoon main woh aapas main itni mohabbat karnay lagtay hain kay apnay waldain aur ghar waaloon ki mohabbat bhi uss mohabbat per haawii ho jaatii hay, yeh hay woh REHAM ka tazkara jo ALLAH SWT insaani diloon main paida kar daita hay!
Humain chayeh kay hum MOHABBAT kay iss azeem rishtay ko unn baazaari mohabbat ka shikaar na honay dain, jiss ka aaj har taraf charcha hay, har film, har gaanay main, har kahani, har afsaanay main zikar hay... SACHII MOHABBAT dilooo ko RAHIM banaatii hay Hawas ka pujaari nahin!!
May ALLAH SWT light and guide our ways AMEEN
Aap ki duwaoon ka talabgaar, ek khaaksaar.
Fi amaan ALLAH