ye pyar kya hota he?

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kya koi kisi se itni mohabat kar sakta he k wo usi jaisa ho jae?
Mohabat ki nahi jati, mohabat ho jati he.
jab ham kisi ko hasil hi ni kar sakte to us se mohabat kiun hoti he?
kya aisa kabhe ho sakta he k jis se ap mohabat karte hn wo ap k bilkul pas ho? lekin phr itna door chala jae k ap cha k bhe us ko pas na la sakein.
Pyar, mohabat, ishq ye sab he kya?
Jab insan apni ana or khud garzi ko bhol jae or hamesha kisi or ki khushi ka hi kheyal rakhe to isay pyar kehte hein. jab anaa or khud garzi darmeyan mein aa jae to pyar pyar nahi rehta, mohabat khatam ho jati he.
Mohabat mein bas aik hi chehra ankhon k samne rehta he. bheerh mein, tanhai mein jahan daikho wohi chehra, wohi ankhein, wohi muskrahat. insan pe us ka khud ka ikhtiar nahi rehta.
Magar tab kaisa mehsos hota he jab ap kisi se bohat pyar karein or wo.......wo apko kuch samjhe hi na. mein yahan english ka aik qol likhna chahun ga:

it breaks urs heart, when u see the person u love is happy with someone else,
but it is more painful, when u see the person u love is unhappy with u.

jab wo shakhs jisay ap pyar karte hn ap se chand gharhi milna bhe pasand na kare. jab wo apki aik choti c bat sun'na bhe pasand na kare. jab wo apki choti c khawahish ko bhe nazar andaz kar de or hamesha apne ap ki hi manay. to kaisa mehsoos hota he?
tab bagawat ho hi jati he. tab shikayat ho hi jati he. ye anaa, ye khud garzi aa hi jati he. pyar kam ho ya na ho magar tabdeli ho hi jati he.

magar ye sab itna takleef deh q hota he? wo shakhs hamare jazbat ko kiun napasand karta he? jab wo hamara ni to ye dil-e-nadan kiun pagal hua jata he?
insan khush rehna chahta he. us chehre ko soche bagair, us ko mehsus kie bagair, insan khush rehna chahta he. use bholne ki koshish karta he. mehfil mein to aksar bhol jata he, magar tanhai mein wo chehra phr se use satata he, phir se usay rulata he. us ki tamam tar nainsafi k bawajood, ye dil kiun usi ko chahta he?

[Usm@n Butt]