Arslan ...

[Arslan]

hmmmmm...well said raano

[~*Rano*~]

hayeeeeeee rano yeh baat mjhe bhot achi lagi k kahe na kahe leken dil main khawaish yeh hoti hai wo bhi hamain chahye wiase nahi tu tora kum he chahey leken chahey zaror i totall agree with u

ji na appo...yeh khawahish tu her muhbbat kernay wala kerta hai na....coz chahna or chahay jana sab ka haq hai....tu phir yeh kio sab kehtay hain keh muhbbat main yeh nai hota keh dosra b ap ko chahay.....aisa hota hai...ap chahtay hain keh wo b ap say muhbbat kare......begair ais khawahish k muhbbat hoti zaroor hai keh ap kehtay hain garz nai chahay wo keh na chahay...lakin after muhbbat...yeh sab kuch khud ap k zehan main ata hai ap us ki khawahish or us ki muhbbat ki khawahish kernay lagtay ho....chahay kuch b ho jaye....even ap ki kismat main b na rahay wo shakhs phir b dil kerta hai keh...wo kahin say ajaye or mil jaye mujay.....

[~*Rano*~]

hmmmmm...well said raano

thanks....


jo sawal me nay kiya u say us ka ans kon day ga..

[Arslan]

sir mein pain ho raha hai...

[~*Rano*~]

yeh ans hai kaya

[naz]

iska Mohabbat ko soch soch ke pain he hone laga

[Arslan]

well muhbbat ko aj tak koi b define nai ker saka or na he ker paye ga.....

ishfaq ahmed ki ik book nazar say gurzi tu us main unhon nay likha tha keh...her muhhbat ki apni taseer hoti hai....matlab keh her muhbbat ik jesi nai hoti us ki diff situations diff descriptions hoti hain

jo b hijab ST or Arsi nay kaha sab apni apni jaga sahi hai.......

ik baat jo main arsi say pouchna chati hoon keh...tum nay ik jaga likha keh tum nay wafa ki umeed nai rakhi....aisa he tha kaya?....tumhari baaton say tu bilkul b nai lagta keh tum nay aisi koi umeed nai rakhi?....coz jab insaan kisi ko chahta hai tu us k saath umeedien khud lagti hain.,....expectations khud bharti hain...un per kisi b insaan ka bas nai rehta.....so main ais baat say totally disagree kerti hoon jo yeh kahay keh muhbbat main paa lenay ki umeed nai thi ya meri muhbbat k saath expectations nai thi...even muhbbat khamosh b karo na ap kisi k saath tu....kabhi kabhi dil main khayal anay lag jata hai keh...kash us shakhs ko pata chal jaye keh main ais ko kitna chahta hoo..kash sirf ik dafa he us ko pata chal jaye meri muhbbat ki shidat.....


yeh b sach hai keh jab kisi say muhbbat kertay ho to ap kehtay ho keh chalo ager us ko nai hai tu mujay tu hai na us k saath...lakin ap k dil main khawahish zaroor hoti hai keh wo b chahay ap ko beshak ap ki tarhan na sahi...per us k dil main muhbbat tu ho ap k liye...


jab ap kisi say muhbbat kertay ho kaya usay pannay ki koshish nai kertay?...kaya yeh nai chahtay keh wo ap ko mil jaye or ap sari umer apni muhbbat k saath khushi khushi guzar daien?.....kaya aisi koi umeed aisi koi khawahish nai hoti?.....

beshaik muhbbat paa lenay ka he naam nai kuch logon ko nai b milti un ki muhbbat....wo tu kismat na....per kaya yeh sahi hai keh ap muhbbat k start say keh kaho keh mere dil main koi umeed koi khawahish nai usay panay ki bas muhbbat hai or bas apnay tak he apnay liye hai.....mera nai khayal keh aisa kuch b hota hai..jesay jesay insaan k dil main us shakhs k liye muhbbat bharti hai waisay waisay he khawahishat or umeedien expectations bharti hain.....koi b muhbat limites main reh ker nai ki jati keh...ap apni muhbbat k gird boundry line bana lo keh....yahan tak rehna hai main nay..ais say agay nai bharana....muhbbat kabhi b mehdood nai hoti......

pata nai kahan say kahan agayi me.....per pata nai wo samhja saki ap ko jo main samhjna or kehna chahti hon.....

umeeeeeed lag jaati hain r lagayi bhi jaati hain..lekin umeedon ko kabhi khaak mein milty daikh hai raano tum ne????

mohabbat ki waqaayi had bandi nahi ki jaa sakti..ye tau by da passage of time barhti rehti hai..

ap mohabbat ko paany ki koshish bhi karty hain...apni taraf se..
lekin agar apko ye pata lagy k ap k chahny waly he ap ki leg pulling kar rahy hain tau??????

mohabbat begharz honi chahiyee lekin hoti hai kiya????ap kisi se begharz mohabbat karty hain??????

u ki baatien dil py asar karti hain..

[Arslan]

mohabbt nahi.......

mohabbat se tau life mein change aa gaya hai

[~*Rano*~]

umeeeeeed lag jaati hain r lagayi bhi jaati hain..lekin umeedon ko kabhi khaak mein milty daikh hai raano tum ne????

mohabbat ki waqaayi had bandi nahi ki jaa sakti..ye tau by da passage of time barhti rehti hai..

ap mohabbat ko paany ki koshish bhi karty hain...apni taraf se..
lekin agar apko ye pata lagy k ap k chahny waly he ap ki leg pulling kar rahy hain tau??????

mohabbat begharz honi chahiyee lekin hoti hai kiya????ap kisi se begharz mohabbat karty hain??????

u ki baatien dil py asar karti hain..

yahi tu me nay tum say poucha tha keh tum nay kaha keh tum nay koi umed nai lagayi thi..jab keh aisa hai he nai..


or umeedon ko khak main miltay dekha hai bardasht b kiya hai....sach umeedien jab toutti hain buht takleef deti hain....insaan ko b tour phor ker rakh deti hain....kher


pata chal jaye tu kaya.....ap k jazbay sachay hain us k liye tu bas wo tu rahien gaye na.,....baki jo wo kare ga us ka wo khud zumedar ho ga....


abhi appo say yahi baat ker rahi thi keh...jo ik lafz bana howa hai na muhbbat k liye keh muhbbat begarz hoti hai her insaan nay us ko apnay apnay mutabik use kiya hai...muhbbat begarz hoti hai ais meaning main keh wo apnay ilawa dosray say kuch b nai mangti...ik muhbbat k badlay muhbbat he tu mangti hai...kaya aisa mangna us ka aisi garz rakhni us ki galat hai kaya? kaya chahay janay ka haq usi ko jis ko chaha ap nay....ap ka koi haq nai?

[Arslan]

yahi tu me nay tum say poucha tha keh tum nay kaha keh tum nay koi umed nai lagayi thi..jab keh aisa hai he nai..


or umeedon ko khak main miltay dekha hai bardasht b kiya hai....sach umeedien jab toutti hain buht takleef deti hain....insaan ko b tour phor ker rakh deti hain....kher


pata chal jaye tu kaya.....ap k jazbay sachay hain us k liye tu bas wo tu rahien gaye na.,....baki jo wo kare ga us ka wo khud zumedar ho ga....


abhi appo say yahi baat ker rahi thi keh...jo ik lafz bana howa hai na muhbbat k liye keh muhbbat begarz hoti hai her insaan nay us ko apnay apnay mutabik use kiya hai...muhbbat begarz hoti hai ais meaning main keh wo apnay ilawa dosray say kuch b nai mangti...ik muhbbat k badlay muhbbat he tu mangti hai...kaya aisa mangna us ka aisi garz rakhni us ki galat hai kaya? kaya chahay janay ka haq usi ko jis ko chaha ap nay....ap ka koi haq nai?

yehi tau me keh raha hn.......bohat takleafdeh amal hai raano jub esa hota hai

mohabbat hamesha qurbaaani maangti hai..

ap jitna bhi dein kam hai is k aagey

jahan tak baat gharz ki hai..

mohabbat mein aik stage esa bhi aata hai jub ap khud selfish ban jaaty hain..chahy ap ki intentions sahi hn k nahi..

haq sirf usi k hain saary...jin se aap mohabbat karty hain..ap ka kuch nahi..sirf gham he milty hain aap ko..pata nahi log ye q nahi samjhty

hijaaaaaaaaaabo ki baatein bhi theek hain..lekin us ka jo mohabbat ka concept hai..me us se agree nahi karta..