Behas O Mubahisa Related 2 Muhabbat

[~*Rano*~]

Wa alaikum As Salam...
yes...coz muaf kr dene ko apna dil b betab ho ga na....
subah ka bhoola agr sham ko laut aye to usse bhoola nai kehte...
Allah ka rasta Muafi ka hai na...

aray kis cheez ka bhoola haya?

kahan ki muafi? or kahan ka rasta?

koi khel tamasha laga howa hai kaya? choti si baat hai kaya?

maar jao or phir zinda ho jao aisa hai kaya?

[~*Rano*~]

walykumasslam

well, yeh depend karta hai k apko us se muhabbat thi ya nahi,
lakin Atif (LoRD) toh accept keray ga coz Atif us se muhabbat karta hai.

1. Muhabbat ki nahi jati ho jati hai.
2. Muhabbat k liye koi shart nahi hoti
3. Muhabbat be laos hoti hai aur be laos nahi hoti
4. Muhabbat khatam nahi hoti

pahli baat muhabbat ki nahi jati , muhabbat khud se hoti hai , yeh bas Allah ki tarf se hota hai k Allah kisi banday ki muhabbat dil mein daal deta hai. isi liye yeh itni powerful hoti hai. agar banda khud apni marzi se muhabbat karay toh wo long lasting nahi hoti jaldi khatam ho jati hai.

2nd k muhabbat k liye koi shart nahi hoti matlab koi aisi reason nahi hoti k banda keh sakay k mein is wajah se us se muhabbat karta hoon, muhabbat ho toh us ki her baat achi he lagti hai, agr muhabbat karnay ki koi reason ho toh wesi muhabbat toh tab tak he hogi na jab tak wo reason qaim hai , ager us banday mein wo cheez i mean wo reason khatam ho jaye toh kia muhabbat khatam ho jaye gi? nahh

3rd muhabbat be laus hoti hai , is k return mein kuch manga nahi jata matlab return mein kuch expect nahi kia jata. bohat se loag kehtay aisa he hain k muhabbat be laus hoti hai lakin wo return mein b muhabbat mangtay hain aur agr muhabbat nahi milti toh usi ko bura bhala kehtay hain jis se unhein muhabbat kartay hain mujhay bohat ghussa ata hai yeh sun ker even aisi poetry b boht buri lagti hai jis mein mehboob ko bura bhala kaha jata hai . like . . . tu ne meri zindagi barbad ki teri b berbad ho khuda karay etc ..
HATE it.

agar aisa ho k aap kisi se muhabbat kartay ho aur wo aap ko dhoka de jaye jesay loag kehtay hain, toh aap us k against ho jatay ho aur badla lene par uter aatay ho , aisay mein jo aap ne us se kaha tha "i love u n wil always DO" yeh baat kahan gai?? aap ki yeh muhabbat kahan gai matlab. ?? agar wo kuch bura karta hai aap k saath toh yeh us ka amal hai , coz wo aisa he hai. aur jab aapko muhabbat hui thi us se wo ab b aisa he tha.

aur muhabbat be laos nahi b hoti coz aap kisi se muhabbat kartay ho toh us k return mein aap ko jo mil raha hota hai wo hai khushi aur skoon. aur agar aapko wo chor k jata hai toh kiu k muhabbat kam nahi hoti isi liye yeh khushi aur skoon b milta rehta hai usay yaad ker k.

matlab agar aap ko kisi se muhabbat hai toh wo aap ko chor kar chala jata hai toh is mein us ka kia qasoor ??? usay aap se muhabbat nahi hogi, matlab aap mein he koi kami ho gi na jo wo aap ko chor gia, usay muhabbat hoti toh wo na chor k jata.

ok, wo wapis a jata hai kuch time k baad, toh yeh question he nahi peda hota k aap usay accept karo gay ya nahi
coz aap toh us se muhabbat kartay ho na , ofcourse aap accept he karo gay usay 2nd baat toh sochi he nahi ja sakti.

matlab jo aap us se muhabbat kartay ho apki is muhabbat per koi farq nahi parta k agla banda kesa hai, wo chor k jata hai ya wapis ata hai , ya us ko aap se muhabbat hai ya nahi hai ya kitni hai , nahh

aur mera man'na hai yeh b k banday ki nature kabhi change nahi hoti , banda jesa hota hai wesa he rehta hai hmesha.

4.
last but not least, muhabbat khatam nahi ho sakti.
kiu k yeh kisi pe depend nahi karti, like halaat, situations , circumstances. nahhh

bus mein aisay he sochta hoon.

ik dafa chor gaya phir chor jaye ga? thn? as u said keh us ko nai b muhbbat ap ko hai tu ap us ko apna lo gaye foran...kis liye apnao gaye ais liye bas k ap ko us say muhbbat hai us ko hai nai hai bhar main jaye mujay tu hai na itna he buht hai.....banda dosra beshak dil lagi ker raha ho...chalo filhal koi or nau yahi sahi keh muj say muhbbat hai ais ko?

or ager us ko ap say muhbbat he nai hai tu ais say kaya farq parta hai keh wo ap k saath hai ya ap say alag.....coz muhbbat na honay ki surat main tab b tu choray howon jesa howa na

or chalo maan liya dono tarf say muhbbat hai or ik banda chor gaya wht eva the case may be..( jab k muhbbat main na reasons hoti hain na majboriyan un do logon k beech) or kch arsy baad aa jata hai keh nai reh paya ap k begair yeh wo.....tu bayi jab tab b muhbbat thi ab b muhbbat hai tu jo muhbbat aj wapis layi hai us nay pehlay chornay kaisay diya ap ko?

jazbati muhbbat lagti ap ki mujay.....

[~*Rano*~]

matlab aap ki muhabbat us ki muhabbat per dependent hai? k ager us ki muhabbat aap k liye hai toh he aap ki muhabbat b us k liye hai agar us ki nahi toh apni b nahi , matlab aap ki apni muhabbat kahan gai ? jo aap ne usay b kaha tha k aap k dil mein us ki muhabbat hai, wo kahan gai ??

me nay yeh nai kaha keh wo chor gaya tu mujay b us say muhbbat nai rahay gi us k honay say he muj ko b muhbat hai bas...me yeh keh rahi hoon keh ager wo chor gaya ..tu bas chor gaya lout ker anay walon k liye koi gunjaish nai hoti...coz jinhon nay saath nibhana hota hai ta umer ka wo ap ko kabhi tanha nai chor ker jatay.....or mere dil main us k liye muhbat hai wo mera masla hai...or muhbbat hemsha rahay gi hemsha karon gi chor ker wo gaya hai wo us ki muhbbat thi meri nai.....

clearedddddd

haan aisay he jesay kuch hua he nahi aur even us ko show b nahi hoga k kuch hua tha

jazbati muhbbat jahan ho wahan aisa he sochta hai insaan..lakin jo ik dar hota hai na muhbbat chor denay or bichar janay ka bhai mere.....wo insaan ko jeenay nai deta.....ais liye aisi soch wahan hoti hai jahan insaan muhbbat kerta hai lakin soch jazbati rakhta hai...

yahan par us ki muhabbat k baray mein baat nahi ho rahi k wo kiu chor ker gia ? us ka guzara ho jata hoga hamaray beghair isi liye chor ker gia hoga na matlab.

dono tarf ki baat ho rahi hai..us ka chor dena or ap ka after reaction...or us ka guzara hota ho ga yeh kaya matlab?...ager guzara he hota hai tu lout ker kio aye ga phir wo?

aap he ki baat mein point hai k aap ne kaha k muhabbat kernay walay nahi chortay chahay soo hazaaar majbooriyan ho, toh abi aap keh rahi hain k ager meri muhabbat mujhay chor jaye toh mein usay kabhi accept nahi karon gi, matlab aap ko kabhi us se muhabbat thi he nahi proved na. kiu k agar muhabbat hoti toh phir kabhi aap us ko chorein na, chahay wo jaye ya aaye us ki marzi na. samjheinnn???

me nay kab kaha keh main choron gi us ko...yeh kaha keh us ko muhbbat hoti tu kio chor ker jata wo....pehlay he....aray bayi kio us ki marzi keh wo aye jaye...dil kholna hai kaya ya pather hai keh koi aye jaye koi farq nai parta ap ko...wo aya tu so bismillah...chala gaya tu saatien kherian.....us ki muhbbat kahan gayi phir? ager ana jana us ki marzi hai?



ya tu ap sab k dil buht he bare hain....ya phir anay janay say ap ko farq nai parta....\

nahi actually hum na samjh hain /read1


koi shak nai hai ji /tali

[*Lucky*]

salam

merya khyaal sya agar ap k mohabat ap ko chaore ker chali jiya to ore phir ap kia pass wapis aa jiya to usya nahi apna cahya
bil farz ap uss ko apna bhi letya hein to ap kiya dil mein yaan uss kiya dil mein pehliya jesi muhabat nahi rehti hai
simple si baat hai uss kiya bad zindagi mein lari kiya sawa kuch nahi milta

kion kiya agar woh ap ko ek bar chore ker ja sakti hai kisi kiya liya to dobara bhi ja sakti hai

i m not agree

agar usy dobara chor kr jana hai to usy zaroorat hi kia hai wapis aany ki?

kis ny kaha k lraae k siwa kuch nahi rehta?

kehty hain na taali aik haath say nahi bajti...

agar koi b insaan koi ghalti krta hai to Khuda b usy muaaf kr deta hai hum to phir b insaan hain...

Wa alaikum As Salam...

yes...coz muaf kr dene ko apna dil b betab ho ga na....
subah ka bhoola agr sham ko laut aye to usse bhoola nai kehte...

Allah ka rasta Muafi ka hai na...

agree with u

ap ki baat theek hai kiya maaf ker dena cahya
per mohabat to pehliya jesi nahi na rehti
lakh apnya dil ko samjha lo per ap nahi samjha pao giya

kion aap ki muhabbat such nahi thi jo aap ki muhabbat main faraq aa gya?

us ny aap ko chora tha aap ny nahi dil main us k faraq ana chahiye aap k nahi....

or agar wo wapis aya hai to muhabbat hai to wapis aya hai na.....

[*Lucky*]

main tou uss key janey key baad dusri sey karloun ga no tension agar wapis bhi ajaye tou side mey uss ko bhi rakh lounga

Kamyaab Zindagi Ka Raaz

or nahi tension nahi leyni chahiye eik jaye gy dosri aye gy

fazool baaton say mana kia gya tha and Sajid emotion wali posts say b mana kia gya tha..agar aap log serious nahi ho skty to kindly yahan na ayen........

[*Lucky*]

walykumasslam

well, yeh depend karta hai k apko us se muhabbat thi ya nahi,
lakin Atif (LoRD) toh accept keray ga coz Atif us se muhabbat karta hai.

1. Muhabbat ki nahi jati ho jati hai.
2. Muhabbat k liye koi shart nahi hoti
3. Muhabbat be laos hoti hai aur be laos nahi hoti
4. Muhabbat khatam nahi hoti

pahli baat muhabbat ki nahi jati , muhabbat khud se hoti hai , yeh bas Allah ki tarf se hota hai k Allah kisi banday ki muhabbat dil mein daal deta hai. isi liye yeh itni powerful hoti hai. agar banda khud apni marzi se muhabbat karay toh wo long lasting nahi hoti jaldi khatam ho jati hai.

2nd k muhabbat k liye koi shart nahi hoti matlab koi aisi reason nahi hoti k banda keh sakay k mein is wajah se us se muhabbat karta hoon, muhabbat ho toh us ki her baat achi he lagti hai, agr muhabbat karnay ki koi reason ho toh wesi muhabbat toh tab tak he hogi na jab tak wo reason qaim hai , ager us banday mein wo cheez i mean wo reason khatam ho jaye toh kia muhabbat khatam ho jaye gi? nahh

3rd muhabbat be laus hoti hai , is k return mein kuch manga nahi jata matlab return mein kuch expect nahi kia jata. bohat se loag kehtay aisa he hain k muhabbat be laus hoti hai lakin wo return mein b muhabbat mangtay hain aur agr muhabbat nahi milti toh usi ko bura bhala kehtay hain jis se unhein muhabbat kartay hain mujhay bohat ghussa ata hai yeh sun ker even aisi poetry b boht buri lagti hai jis mein mehboob ko bura bhala kaha jata hai . like . . . tu ne meri zindagi barbad ki teri b berbad ho khuda karay etc ..
HATE it.

agar aisa ho k aap kisi se muhabbat kartay ho aur wo aap ko dhoka de jaye jesay loag kehtay hain, toh aap us k against ho jatay ho aur badla lene par uter aatay ho , aisay mein jo aap ne us se kaha tha "i love u n wil always DO" yeh baat kahan gai?? aap ki yeh muhabbat kahan gai matlab. ?? agar wo kuch bura karta hai aap k saath toh yeh us ka amal hai , coz wo aisa he hai. aur jab aapko muhabbat hui thi us se wo ab b aisa he tha.

aur muhabbat be laos nahi b hoti coz aap kisi se muhabbat kartay ho toh us k return mein aap ko jo mil raha hota hai wo hai khushi aur skoon. aur agar aapko wo chor k jata hai toh kiu k muhabbat kam nahi hoti isi liye yeh khushi aur skoon b milta rehta hai usay yaad ker k.

matlab agar aap ko kisi se muhabbat hai toh wo aap ko chor kar chala jata hai toh is mein us ka kia qasoor ??? usay aap se muhabbat nahi hogi, matlab aap mein he koi kami ho gi na jo wo aap ko chor gia, usay muhabbat hoti toh wo na chor k jata.

ok, wo wapis a jata hai kuch time k baad, toh yeh question he nahi peda hota k aap usay accept karo gay ya nahi
coz aap toh us se muhabbat kartay ho na , ofcourse aap accept he karo gay usay 2nd baat toh sochi he nahi ja sakti.

matlab jo aap us se muhabbat kartay ho apki is muhabbat per koi farq nahi parta k agla banda kesa hai, wo chor k jata hai ya wapis ata hai , ya us ko aap se muhabbat hai ya nahi hai ya kitni hai , nahh

aur mera man'na hai yeh b k banday ki nature kabhi change nahi hoti , banda jesa hota hai wesa he rehta hai hmesha.

4.
last but not least, muhabbat khatam nahi ho sakti.
kiu k yeh kisi pe depend nahi karti, like halaat, situations , circumstances. nahhh

bus mein aisay he sochta hoon.

superbbbbbbbb

i like i m agree with u

muhabbat leny ka nahi deny k naam hai ....

agar wo chor jaye to is ka ye matlab to nahi k hum b chor dain...or agar hamari muhabbat suchi hai to usy wapis to aana hi pary ga

hammmmm mare thinking hai k agar koe mohabbat main dhoka

day kar jae aur pher wapis palat kar aae aur agar woh apni

harkat par sharminda ho to maaf to kia jata hai but i think dubara

accept karna bohat mushkil hai hum sirf zuban se to kehte hai k

main sab kuch bhool gae lakin shayad aik khalish ya kasak humare

dil main humesha rehte hai main kabhee bhee dubara us shaks

per trust nae kar sakti is baat ki kia guaranty hai k woh dubara

choor kar nae jae ga ?

zuban say kehny ka kia faida gara aap dil say nahi chahty to zuban say kehny ka to koi faida hi nahi.....or muhabbat dil say ki jaati hai zubaan say nahi

[*Lucky*]

i am 1 of thm jo kehtay hain keh muhbbat chali gayi tu bas chali gayi...

okkkkkkkkkkk

mujay batao keh ager ap ki muhbbat ik dafa ap ko chor gayi for wht eva reason may be......or kch arsa baad wapis aajaye tu ap us ko waisay he apna lo gaye jesay kch howa he nai??

yes i will,,

yes main zaroor apnaoon gi wo wapis awain nahi aaye ga muhabbat hogi to hi aaye ga na...

ager itni he muhbbat thi tu chor ker kio jaye ga wo banda? kaya jo ik dafa chor gaya wo dobara nai chor sakta?

agar dobara chorna hai to wo wapis hi kion aaye ga?

muhbat kernay walay kabhi ik dosray ko nai chortay lucky baji chahay sooo hazar majboriyan ya reasons hoon maan lo ais baat ko or baki sab b maan laien

no sorry main nahi maan skti

lakin jb mot aati hai tb to chorna hi prta hai na,,,us waqat k liye kia kaho gi?

ya tu ap sab k dil buht he bare hain....ya phir anay janay say ap ko farq nai parta....

dil bara hona chahiye tabi sb kuch acha hota hai

[*Lucky*]

Mere Nazdeek , Aisa Shakhs Muaafi k kabil nahi hai , Muhabbat agar woh aap se karta tu kabhi chor kar jata hi nhi ....... chor k jana hi tha tu Muhabbat ka lafz kyon istimal kya? Muhabbat ko bad-naam kyon kya? wo shakhs muhabbat nhi tym pass kar raha tha , leken agar aap ne us se Sachi Muhabbat ki leken woh aap ko chor k chala gaya tu yeh us ne Aap ki , Aap ki Muhabbat Ki Tazleel ki hai , woh shakhs Muhabbat k kabil hi nhi ..... Aap ne kyon k sachi muhabbat ki thi isi leye aap ki muhabbat kabhi maray gi tu nhi leken us shakhs par kya aap pehle ki tarhan aitbar kar sakte hu? kya waise hi paak saaf muhabbat aap ko mil sakti hai? kya aap k La-Shaor main yeh khayal nhi rahay ga k yeh shakhs dobara bhi chor sakta hai........ mera manna hai k

Muhabbat Ki Masafat Main Musafir K Palatne Ka KOi Kinara Nahi Huta

To phr woh shakhs kyon palta???????? Hargiz nhi , main tu aise shakhs ko kabhi nahi apnaaon gi , phir mamla Izzat-e-Nafs ka huga... jo Shakhs Muhabbat k naam par dhoka dai woh mere nazdeek boht bara gunah-gaar hai .....! aur main usay muaaf nhi karon gi ....cha hay Muhabbat Ka Pehla Khasara Zindagi bhar mere Saath Rahay..........!!!!



(agar koi izzat-e-nafs par aitraz karay k ,muhabat mein yeh sab nhi huta tu aik baat keh don k , larai jhagray mein tu Ana ko mitaya ja sakta hai , leken jab woh shakhs chor jaye tu phir sab se bara masla Izzat-e-nafs hi huti hai ) .....

time paas krny wala muhabbat nahi krta or yahan muhabbat krny walon ki baat ho rahi hai...

muaaf krny k liye dil ko bohat bara krna parta hai

[*Lucky*]

aap he ki baat mein point hai k aap ne kaha k muhabbat kernay walay nahi chortay chahay soo hazaaar majbooriyan ho, toh abi aap keh rahi hain k ager meri muhabbat mujhay chor jaye toh mein usay kabhi accept nahi karon gi, matlab aap ko kabhi us se muhabbat thi he nahi proved na. kiu k agar muhabbat hoti toh phir kabhi aap us ko chorein na, chahay wo jaye ya aaye us ki marzi na. samjheinnn???

agree with u

[captain planet]

dil se pyar krny waly kabi chorr k nahi jaty aur jaien to pher hoskta hai un ki koi majbori ho ya koi mis understanding hogae ho....
waqt kabi rukta nahi hai.....
hoskta hai k ap usy maaf krden par halaat asy hn k ap usy apna na paen coz time and tide w8 4 none