Beha O Mubahisa Ghar K Halaat Ka Zimmadaar kon?

[insh]

w salam
lagta hai lucky ki shadi hone wale hai is liye information akhati kar rahee hai
Waise to situation per depend karta hai lakin saas aur baho k

beach main important person hota hai husband to mare khayal se

agar woh dono ko un k haqooq day aur koe masla hone par dono

ki baat neutral ho kar sune to mera nae khayal k ghar main jhagre

fasad hoon waise to ghar k sabhe he mem per zimadari hai ghar

ka mahool theek rakhne ki but i thing husband per zayada hote hai

[Islam-Peace]

mara khaal ma wife aur saas
q
k
hasband tu bechara sara din kam kar kar k thaka hota ha usay kha fursat hoti ha asay kamao ke

zaroori to nh k hur husband job hi karey? men control e situation of e house, agr wohi mard chahye to ghar mein peace la skta hai qkey hamari society mein mard hve e power

[Islam-Peace]

sab ki hi galti hoti hai kisi aik ko kahna k tum zimmadaar hu tu wo galat hai

bilkul theek, or i personally believe dt it olso dpnds on e situation, coz agr mein kahun k husband ki ghalti hoti hai to zaroori nh k ghar main harr daffa fight honey mein husband ki hi ghalti ho:-

harr daffa same bandey ki ghalti nh ho skti..

[Islam-Peace]

walaikum us salllam blossom ji ....

Nice Topic nAA ,,,,

" BURY HALAAT KA ZIMMADAAR"

Mere khiyal se tu ab tu yeh hr ghar ki kahani ho gai naa .... kahani ghar ghar ki ....
dekha jye tu hum sab hi invole hain ...& Haqooq Ul Ibad ka b amaldakha hai sab ki life may ..
..phir b jaisa k aapny kaha k in may se kon zimmadaar hai ...Wife,Husband,saas etc....? tu janab mere khiyal se yeh sab rishtey hain our agar har rishta appny Haqooq Ul Ibad pury karey tu lari jhager ho hi nahi sakta iss liya kisi aik ko zimmadaar kahna galat ho ga ...Haqooq Ul Ibad purey hoon gye tu har koi khush or SAB se" RAB" bhi khush ,,, ki nAA paate ki baat ....par har insan ki apni appni soch haii .... ALLAh paK HUM sab ko khush rakhay /ameen
1

Kis Tarah Khaya Hai Dhoka Kya Bataon Main Tumhey..??
Dostoon Key Mashwarey They Saazishon K Sath Sath1

very nice sis/bro ....i totally agree with you..

[~*Rano*~]

mere khayal main teeno he zaimaydar hotay hain.....coz saas baho ka rishta aisa hai keh...ik dosray per ilazam laga ik dosray ko necha dikhana yeh shamil ho jata hai kch gahron main sab ik jesay nai hotay....kayi dafa husband hota hai aisa keh larayi ki waja wo hota hai....over all i mean depend kerta hai sab keh kaya situation hai or kon kis hisaab ka hai...

balance rakhna buht zaroori hai...kayi dafa biwi kehti hai keh ais say shadi hoyi hai tu ab yeh mera he hai ais k gahar walon ka haq nai ais per tu wo husband ko ker deti hai pagal jis say halaat kharab hotay hain

kayi dafa saas yeh sab bardasht nai kerti keh betay ki muhbbat bat jaye tu phir halaat kharab hotay hain....

respect denay or payar muhbbat say zindagi guzarna buht kam log chahtay hain aj kal....

[ANJAN]

mere khayal main teeno he zaimaydar hotay hain.....coz saas baho ka rishta aisa hai keh...ik dosray per ilazam laga ik dosray ko necha dikhana yeh shamil ho jata hai kch gahron main sab ik jesay nai hotay....kayi dafa husband hota hai aisa keh larayi ki waja wo hota hai....over all i mean depend kerta hai sab keh kaya situation hai or kon kis hisaab ka hai...

balance rakhna buht zaroori hai...kayi dafa biwi kehti hai keh ais say shadi hoyi hai tu ab yeh mera he hai ais k gahar walon ka haq nai ais per tu wo husband ko ker deti hai pagal jis say halaat kharab hotay hain

kayi dafa saas yeh sab bardasht nai kerti keh betay ki muhbbat bat jaye tu phir halaat kharab hotay hain....

respect denay or payar muhbbat say zindagi guzarna buht kam log chahtay hain aj kal....

ap ko to jesay is ka tajerba hy/morning

[*Lucky*]

mara khaal ma wife aur saas
q
k
hasband tu bechara sara din kam kar kar k thaka hota ha usay kha fursat hoti ha asay kamao ke

wow kia jawab dia hai....

janab baat ye nahi k wo sara din ghar par nahi hota ya us ko fursat nahi hoti...wo ghar par ho ya na ho wo jo chahy kr skta hai...wife and saas ka b kuch na kuch qasoor hota hai but husband chahy to kuch nahi hoga...

well to be honest .... hamari zindagi k aik aik achay buray faislay ka daro madar hamaray apnay amaal par hai ... blame karna ... asaan hai par khud ko ghalat maanna buhat zayada mushkil ... ghar k andar hamaisha larayi jhagray ki bari waja AKHLAAAQ ka na hona hai ...

g bilkul theek kaha...

but ghar k halaat ko husband hi handle kr skta hai agr wo chahy to ghar k bighry hooye halat theek ho skty hain bal k agar wo chahy to aisy halaat paida hi na hon...

all...........

acha........

sab ki hi galti hoti hai kisi aik ko kahna k tum zimmadaar hu tu wo galat hai

g ghalti sb ki hoti hai but us ghalti ko sudhaarny wala aik hi kaafi hai...

[*Lucky*]

ye to behaviour per hay
mukhtalif logon ga rawia mukhtalif hota hy
kehain wife jhagralu hoti hy aur kahain saas
koi husband surial tabiyat ka hota hy to baz auqat gher k mashi halat in sab kherabion ka bais banty hain
mashi halat achy b ho sakty hain aur bury b
achy halat ki surat me jis ki raqam ho wo samjhta hy k 2sry us ki kamai ko kherab ker rhy hain aur us k sahary reh rhy hain is liye un ko us ki atat kerna chahiye
2sry terf kherab halat to jhagry ka bais hoty hi hain

muaashi halaat ko to aik taraf rakhen coz agar ghar main sb ittefaaq say rahen gay to ghar k muashi halaat kaisy b kion na hon zindagi achi basar ho jaati hai...but agar ghar k muaashi halat achy hon or logon main ittefaaq na ho to sb aik jaisa hi hota hai....

Wa Alaikum Asalam..
sub jagha situation different hoti hai,depend krta hai k galti kis ki hai ,aksar sas buri hoti hai to aur bahu per zulam hota hai,kahin pr husband,to kahin pr bahu...
agr sas aur bahu k jaghre se nikal kr dono maa beti ban jaen to kafi sakoon ho jaye,mgr husband to main hai,agr wo maa ko maa ki jagha aur bahu ko bahu ki jagha rakhe to dono khush...
♥Geo aur Jeene do♥

yes u r right, husband main hai...

agar wo donon ko un ki jaga par rakhy or un ko btaaye k un k kia fraayez or kia haqooq hain to ghar k halaat behtar ho skty hain...

walaikum us salllam blossom ji ....

Nice Topic nAA ,,,,

" BURY HALAAT KA ZIMMADAAR"

Mere khiyal se tu ab tu yeh hr ghar ki kahani ho gai naa .... kahani ghar ghar ki ....
dekha jye tu hum sab hi invole hain ...& Haqooq Ul Ibad ka b amaldakha hai sab ki life may ..
..phir b jaisa k aapny kaha k in may se kon zimmadaar hai ...Wife,Husband,saas etc....? tu janab mere khiyal se yeh sab rishtey hain our agar har rishta appny Haqooq Ul Ibad pury karey tu lari jhager ho hi nahi sakta iss liya kisi aik ko zimmadaar kahna galat ho ga ...Haqooq Ul Ibad purey hoon gye tu har koi khush or SAB se" RAB" bhi khush ,,, ki nAA paate ki baat ....par har insan ki apni appni soch haii .... ALLAh paK HUM sab ko khush rakhay /ameen
1

Kis Tarah Khaya Hai Dhoka Kya Bataon Main Tumhey..??
Dostoon Key Mashwarey They Saazishon K Sath Sath1

yes haqooq ul ibaad ko to dunyaa bhool hi chuki hai...agar wo is cheez ko madd e nazar rakhen to ghar to kia poora mulak sudar skta hai...

[*Lucky*]

w salam
lagta hai lucky ki shadi hone wale hai is liye information akhati kar rahee hai
Waise to situation per depend karta hai lakin saas aur baho k

beach main important person hota hai husband to mare khayal se

agar woh dono ko un k haqooq day aur koe masla hone par dono

ki baat neutral ho kar sune to mera nae khayal k ghar main jhagre

fasad hoon waise to ghar k sabhe he mem per zimadari hai ghar

ka mahool theek rakhne ki but i thing husband per zayada hote hai

nahi yaar abhi nahi ho rahi me ki shaadi

yes husband chahy to ghar k halaat hamesha k liye behtar ho skty hain or agar wahi na chahy to ghar k halaat bury hi rahen gay...

zaroori to nh k hur husband job hi karey? men control e situation of e house, agr wohi mard chahye to ghar mein peace la skta hai qkey hamari society mein mard hve e power

bilkul theek kaha....absolutely right...i m agreee...

[*Lucky*]

bilkul theek, or i personally believe dt it olso dpnds on e situation, coz agr mein kahun k husband ki ghalti hoti hai to zaroori nh k ghar main harr daffa fight honey mein husband ki hi ghalti ho:-

harr daffa same bandey ki ghalti nh ho skti..

hmmmm sahi har dafa aik hi bandy ki ghalti nahi ho skti...but har dafa ki ghalti ko khatam sirf husband hi kr skta hai...

main ye nahi kehti k husband lraae jhagry krta hai...nahi,,,bal k wo wife and saas ko control kr skta hai...coz aaj kal k husband wife ko sb kuch smjhty hain or parents ko bhool jaaty hain k unon ny usy paida kia or kisi qabil bnaya...

mere khayal main teeno he zaimaydar hotay hain.....coz saas baho ka rishta aisa hai keh...ik dosray per ilazam laga ik dosray ko necha dikhana yeh shamil ho jata hai kch gahron main sab ik jesay nai hotay....kayi dafa husband hota hai aisa keh larayi ki waja wo hota hai....over all i mean depend kerta hai sab keh kaya situation hai or kon kis hisaab ka hai...

balance rakhna buht zaroori hai...kayi dafa biwi kehti hai keh ais say shadi hoyi hai tu ab yeh mera he hai ais k gahar walon ka haq nai ais per tu wo husband ko ker deti hai pagal jis say halaat kharab hotay hain

kayi dafa saas yeh sab bardasht nai kerti keh betay ki muhbbat bat jaye tu phir halaat kharab hotay hain....

respect denay or payar muhbbat say zindagi guzarna buht kam log chahtay hain aj kal....

yes u r right...
but husband ko chahiye k wo apni wife ko btaaye k wo us k parents hain usy un ki respact krni hai un ki khidmat krni hai...un k saamny zubaan draazi nahi krni...

to mujhy nahi lgta k koi b banda bagher kisi waja k kisi say lraa e jhagra kry...