Mohabbat Kadah Polling for April Comp 2011

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Comp Main 10 Members ne participate kiya.
jis ki sharing ap ko pasand aye vote kijeye


Rules:-

Ek member ek hi bar vote kr skta h�i.
Aap apni sharing ko vote nahi kar sktey.
Vote krney ki last date 28th April 2011 hai.

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Paras


Boht Kuch Bardasht karna parta hai Muhabbat main , aur yaqenan ahmiyat rkhta hai , leken mera zaat khayal hai k woh bardasht insaan k andar jama huti rehti hai aur phir banda aik dam hi phat parta hai , lehaza bardasht jahan tak kar saktay hain karain ,leken is ka asaan hal yeh hai k aap muhabbat karne walay ko bata dain k mujhe yeh cheez pasand nhi ,ya yeh mere mizaj se taluq nhi rakhti , kyon k bardasht insaan aik had tak hi kar sakta hai , aur phir yeh bhi hu sakta hai k aik shakhs mustaqil bardasht karta rahay leken phir aik point par aakar woh shakhs hi us k dil se utar jaye! taluq jahan mazboot huta hai bardasht karne se , wahan mere khayal se mustaqil bardasht insaan k rishtay main daraar bhi daal sakti hai!


naz

her rishtey main kuch na kuch bardasht karna parta hai..Mohabbat main tu khas...leken agar us Bardasht ko app MOhabbat ki nazar se dekhain...yeh sochey ke yeh chez mere Mehbob ko achi nahi lagti..kiya hua jo main yeh chez khud main se khatam kardon...agar is Bardasht ko alag tarike se sochne lag jaye or negative pehlon khatam krde..tu brdasht karne ka jo masla paida hota hai wo he paida na ho...jab kisi se MOhabbat ki jati hia tu uski achaye buriye sub app ki he hoti hia...agar us main koi buriye hai tu koshish yeh krne chhaye ke ap ki MOhabbat main itni taqat ho ke wo buriye ap ki MOhabbat se khatam hojaye or ap ke mehbob ko pata b na chaley k wo change horaha hai...MOhabbat main bht taqat hia wo sub kuch karwa deti hia...isliye mera man`na yeh hia ke bardasht lafz ko he zindagi se agar nikal diya jaye..tu kitna acha ho..sochaye agr hamain koi kahey ke " main tumhe itne ursey se brdsht karha hon/ karhe hon"kitna bura lagey ga na ...her wo lamha ko Mohabbat ka tha wo bhari hojaye ga..wo azab bun jaye ga...isliye aise nobat he na ane dene chahye...ke koi yeh kahe...!!!



dhanak


berdasht...........matlab sabar ager ikhtalaf e rai ho tou tuhamal say hr aik ka nazriya sunana or respect daitay huay osay manana.per yeh zroori nahi k os point of view ko dono maanain......
ager isay berdasht kaha gya hy tou bht zroori hy laikin ager berdasht say yeh matlab hy k ager koi din ko raat keh raha hy tou ap mohabbat ki waja say raat he kahain.....mere nazdeek tou yeh berdasht nahi
or mere khyaal main mostly relations main aik mehboob tou doosra mohabbat kernay wala hota hy or jo mohabbat kertay hain wo apni zaat khatm ker daitay hain or jab zaat he nahi aana he nahi apna wajood he nahi tou ikhtalaaf hota he nahi..............
phr berdasht ka is say koi talluq nahi.

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Killer



Mohabbat ba.zaahir to ik lafz hy lekin iske kuch juz hain, jo isko mukammal ya is lafz ki hurmat ko takmeel dete hain, bardasht un mei se aik hay.
Bardasht, sirf ik dosre ki ghltiyon ko nazrandaz krne ka nam nai hota balke,kat.hin waqt mai ik dosre ko samjhne aur apna aap kuchal ke, apne hamsafar ko ehmyat dena bhi hay. Iska matlb apne matah-e-kul ki khusi ko apni zaat, ya apni khusi per tarjeeh dena hay. Bardasht Allah ki raza mai raazi hona bhi hai,hatta k kisi ko muaaf kar dena bhi bardasht hai.

jesa k wazeh hay k rishta-e-mohabbt ik dosre ki qadar karna sikhata hay jab ke dosri taraf insani fitrat mai hi tasadum rakha geya hai..her insan ik dosre se muklif banya geya hai isliy Rab-e-kainaat ne mohabbat jese nazuk bandhan ko qaem rakhne k liy "bardasht", naam ka pull takhleeq kiya...

koi rishta nibahne k liy yaqeenan bardasht ka boht bara dakhal hota hai kyon ke sach ye hai ke ham kitna bhi chahein, sab kuch hamari marzi se nahi hota. ik dosre ki choti choti ghaltioyn ko ye soch kar nazer andaz kardena k ham se bhi ghalti ho sakti hai, rishte ko mazboot banata hai,ek dosre k liye dil saaf rehta hay jis se qurbatain barhti hain aur rishta mazboot se mazboot ter hota jata hay.. gharz ye ke bardasht ,dilon ko jorne aur mazboot rishte ki taraf jane wala raasta hai..





Pascal

Hmmm... muhabbat to muhabbat hoti hay... muhabbat main kuch bardasht karna... sawal he paida nahi hota.. jab muhabbat ho to kaisi bardasht... jis say muhabbat ho us ki har cheez har baat say muhabbat hoti hay.. phir bardasht ka kiya sawal... mehboob ki har baat,,, har adat say muhabbat hojati hay... muhabbat main kuch bardasht nahi karna hota.. k muhabbat to khud aisa jazba hay jo sab kuch khud manwata jata hay... aap ko mehboob ki koi bhi baat nakhushgawar ya napasand nahi lagti... kyun k wahan muhabbat hoti hay sirf.. aur kuch nahi.. aur muhabbat nibhaai nahi jati.. sirf ki jati hay... agar muhabbat nibhanay ki baat darmiyaan ajaye to woh muhabbat nahi rehti... aap k paas muhabbat k siwa aur kuch nahi reh jata aap k mehboob k liye... so.. muhabbat bas sirf muhabbat hoti hay... aur kuch bhi nahi....
""ye bazi ishq ki bazi hay, jo chaho laga do Dar kaisa
gar jeet gaye to kiya kehna,, haaray bhi to baazi maat nahi""

insh



karna parta hai bardasht lakin najaiz kuch bhee bardasht nahi karna chea

q k aksar dekha gaya hai k mohabbat ki khater ya apna rishta qaaim rakhnay ki khatar bohat kuch bardasht kartay jate hain sahee bhee aur galat bhee lakin bardasht karnay ki bhee aik limit hote hai jab woh limit cross ho jae to pher aap aik dam he blast ho jate hain us time pher aap ko kisi mohabbat ya kisi relation ko bchanay ka koe hosh nahi hota

is liye mera apna jo khayal hai woh yahi hai k utna he bardasht karay jitna kar sakte hoon.

aur relation ko bachanay wali baat dono taraf se he ho to relation qaim rehta hai warna woh rishta jis main sab kuch bardasht he kia ja raha ho us main mohabbat nahi hote sirf compromise he hota hai.

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Aab Deeda



MUhabbat ka doosra naam bardasht hi he
Yani wo baten jo koi or kry to aap ko bohat takleef deti hen
Whi agar mehboob kry to aap ko achi lagny lagti hen
Aap ko rahat pohanchany lagti hen, yehi Muhabbat ka wo jazba he jahan roohen mil k aik ho jati hen or waqt or Dunia peechy bohat peechy reh jati he, wesy bhi humen jab kisi se muhabbat ho to hmen ye jaan lena chahiye k hmen us ki zaat se muhabbat he ya sifaat se, agar to hmen us ki sifaat se Muhabbat he to jaan lijy k ye Muhabbat nehin he, or agar hmen us ki zaat se Muhabbat he to hmen usy us ki zaat ki sari khamion k sath usy apnana prta he, kiun wo b aik insan he koi frishta nehin or Khuda nen insan men ghalati ki khoo rakhi he ...
Muhabbat men agar hum in baton ka khayal kar len to bohat se masayel peda hony se pehly hi khatam ho jayen gy or Bardasht krny ya na krny ki nobat ehin aye gi.




akiller




mohabbat... me aaj tak is lafz ki wousaaton ko jaan nahi paya k har ehsaas aur jazba is lafz me kese na kese zam hojata ha.. is ek lafz k hazaaron pehlooun me se ek "bardasht" ka pehlo b ha...
sawal kuch youn ha k in yak-jaan jazbon me se ek ki ehmyat ko ubharna ha to shuruat is zameen pe moujood ek misaal se krte hian...
aagosh-e-mohabbat, maa... ek maa se zyada mohabbat kon kise kr skta ha... wo ek wajood k kuch na hone se ley kr kuch hone tk, har haal me bardasht krti ha.. wo apne bachey k na-ehalyat se ley kr adam-dilchaspi tak k har marhaley me us k wajood ko bardasth krti ha... ab is sey zyada bardasht ki kia ehamiyat ho skti ha, ye to insaan ki pedaish k waqt se hi us k rooh me apni jaga baanae bethi hoti ha... aur hota ye k gafil insaan waqt k sath sath is inmoool tohfey ko ganwata rehta ha...


rahi baat dosrey rishton ki to jo rishtey hame baney banaey mil jate hian to waqt guzaren k sath sath ek ham-ahangi peda hojati ha jo mohabbat me se bardasht k lafz ki turshi ko kam krti jati ha,, aur jo rishtey hum khud banate hian , un ki shuruaat mohabbat se nahi bardassht se hoti... ek dosrey ki samaj ko bardasht krna, ek dosrey k ikhtilafat ko bardasth krna, ek dosrey k nazery ko bardasth krna... phir isi tarah se agey chal kr jub mohabat aur bardasht ham-palla ho jaen to ek dosrey k galtion ko bardasht krna, ek dosrey k badley hue lehjon ko bardasht krna aur isi tareeqe ki har ounch neech ko bardasht karna kisi b rishtey ko paaya-e-takmeel tk ley janey k mutradif ha... phir ahista ahista ye bardasht ka dour khatam ho kr kamil mohabbat ka dour shuru hojata ha...
ye bardasht sirf insaano k lye kargar sabit hoi ha,,,, but'on or patharon pe kisi b kisam ki bardasht ka koi asar nahi hota....

aur kisi b rishtey me bardasht tab hi khatam hoti ha jab wahan aanaou ka tasadum hojae.. jo k kisi sorat hal nahi hota..

abhi achanak ek line yaad aai...shyd kisi ki bardasht se bahir nikal gai ho...


na-khuda hi mila na wisal-e-sanam.... na idher k rahy na udher k rahy ham...







~*Rano*~




well....jahan takah muhbbat main bardasht ki baat hai tu....muhbbat main insaan jo b dosre k liye kerta hai....ya kerwata hai....wo muhbbat main kerta hai...yeh nai sochta keh main ais k liye yeh ker raha main ais k liye bardasht ker raha hoon...khud ba khud sab hota jata hai....pasand na pasand ik dosre k hisaab se kaisay badal jati hai..pata b nai chalta....

or yaqeen jano....aisa kerna kahin b bura nai lagta...kahin b dukh nai hota keh....apni yeh cheez chor rahay hain....ya kch b aisa....

or main samhjti hoon keh....aisa kerna achi baat hai..apne mehboob k hisaab se khud ko badal lena...khud main bardasht peda kerni...aisa kernay se ap ka relation acha rehta hai or mazboot hota hai.....ager ap aisa sab soch ker karo gaye keh ap bardasht ker rahay ho...tu buht jeld ap thak jao gaye ...coz bardasht ki ik had hoti hai na jab wo haad nai rahi tu sab kch khatam phir....

ais liye muhbbat main sab kch khushi or muhbbat or mehboob k liye ker rahay hain..yeh soch ker karo...tu muhbbat din ba din barhti jati hai....trust me......

Younhi Bethay Bethay
Kahin Gum Ho jati hoon
Ab Main Akser
Main Nai Rehti
Tum Ho Jati Hoon....

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Mi$hoo

Jahan mohabbat hoti hai wahan bardaasht apke andar khud ba khud deray Daal leti hai..mohabbat ka ehsaas itna taqatwar hota hai ke insaan kuch bhi bardaasht karne ko tayar ho jata hai...Shayad Is liye kaha gaya hai ke mohabbat andhi hoti hai..

agar app ke andar bardasht ki sense khatam hone lage aur aap toot kar bikherne lagein tab samajh lena chahiye ke ap ki mohabbat mein woh pehle wali shiddat woh beqarari baqi nahiin rahi..aur yahin se kisi bhi relation ki kamzori ka Agaz hota hai...rishte kisi tooti hui mala ki tarhan bikherne lagte hain...

mohabbat insaan ko bardaasht karna sikhati hai yahan tak ke mehboob ki bewafayi bhi aap bardaasht kar jate hain ke woh khush rahe uski khushi apke liye itni ehem hoti hai ke apko uski judaayi bhi bardaasht ho jati hai..

magar jahan bardaasht na ho wahan mohabbat nahiin hoti woh rishta jo mohabbat kehlata hai woh wahiin toot kar bikher jata hai..phir chahe jis se apne kabhi mohabbat ki ho woh door rahe ya paas koi faraq nahiin parta mohabbat tu kho jaati hai na..Isliye apni mohabbat ki qadar karein..rishta chahe koi bhi ho jahan mohabbat ho wahan bardaasht bhi honi chahiye..werna mohabbat kho jaye gi..khayal rakhiye..

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w.salam
, m finding it v.strange k unko b vote milre hain jinhone relevant b nai likha (acc to me) , khir apni apni pasnd hay

@ naaz - sorry to say but is bar u were terrible at this

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